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Post by junior on Dec 5, 2016 13:56:27 GMT
She didn't name names, simply said Thus casting aspersions on everybody who tried to help her. Not on. She is the one who's done that, not anybody on this thread.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 5, 2016 14:00:58 GMT
Thus casting aspersions on everybody who tried to help her. Not on. She is the one who's done that, not anybody on this thread. Yes I know, I don't think I have suggested or said anybody on this thread has done, have I?
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Post by Deleted on Dec 5, 2016 14:03:33 GMT
We only know what we can see in that thread, we have no idea as to what has been said in emails/texts or in real life. I prefer not to make assumptions about anyone and hope Miss Max is well and enjoying her life on board. I am surprised that the mods. have allowed much of the latter part of that thread to stay up TBH. It surely would be better for her if it was hidden/removed from public view.
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Post by junior on Dec 5, 2016 14:19:38 GMT
Personally I ama believe in things that have been said stay said. It encourages people to think before they speak.
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Post by junior on Dec 5, 2016 14:20:30 GMT
It should be up to an individual to request that something they have said be deleted.
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Post by tonyqj on Dec 5, 2016 14:21:16 GMT
We only know what we can see in that thread, we have no idea as to what has been said in emails/texts or in real life. I prefer not to make assumptions about anyone and hope Miss Max is well and enjoying her life on board. I am surprised that the mods. have allowed much of the latter part of that thread to stay up TBH. It surely would be better for her if it was hidden/removed from public view. The mods are exercising a MUCH lighter touch these days.
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Post by kris on Dec 5, 2016 15:12:31 GMT
We only know what we can see in that thread, we have no idea as to what has been said in emails/texts or in real life. I prefer not to make assumptions about anyone and hope Miss Max is well and enjoying her life on board. I am surprised that the mods. have allowed much of the latter part of that thread to stay up TBH. It surely would be better for her if it was hidden/removed from public view. im not surprised she is upset. For someone who has already said she is unwell, to be on the receiving end of some of those coments isn't good. I think people forget, that it's a living breathing human being on the other side of the screen.
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Post by lollygagger on Dec 5, 2016 15:13:57 GMT
I am surprised that the mods. have allowed much of the latter part of that thread to stay up TBH. It surely would be better for her if it was hidden/removed from public view. im not surprised she is upset. For someone who has already said she is unwell, to be on the receiving end of some of those coments isn't good. I think people forget, that it's a living breathing human being on the other side of the screen. Well said that man.
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Post by mischief on Dec 5, 2016 15:15:29 GMT
I am surprised that the mods. have allowed much of the latter part of that thread to stay up TBH. It surely would be better for her if it was hidden/removed from public view. im not surprised she is upset. For someone who has already said she is unwell, to be on the receiving end of some of those coments isn't good. I think people forget, that it's a living breathing human being on the other side of the screen. and to see people talking about her will make it harder for her to come online and ask for further help.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 5, 2016 15:41:29 GMT
and to see people talking about her will make it harder for her to come online and ask for further help. Personally I have to disagree. Knowing that people care enough to worry about you can bring you back to reality (and help you move on). I'm no expert so don't take me for one. The rail industry is gradually training it's staff to recognise potential suicides (along with other actions), this makes business sense as well as the humanitarian sense. Keeping someone talking is a positive step, letting them know that there are people who care about them (even if they don't recognise it at the time) is another positive step. Letting them know that 'the world' cares about them and will forgive them gives hope. Edited to add that I didn't mean to suggest that Max was suicidal in any way. I just tried to relate some of my experiences about how to deal with someone who isn't going through a 'good time'.
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Post by naughtyfox on Dec 5, 2016 15:52:43 GMT
I am surprised that the mods. have allowed much of the latter part of that thread to stay up TBH. It surely would be better for her if it was hidden/removed from public view. The mods are exercising a MUCH lighter touch these days. Yeah - she's allowed to say fu@@ ??!! On a FUCKING FAMILY FORUM? I haven't followed the thread.
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Post by naughtyfox on Dec 5, 2016 16:23:28 GMT
Dave_P a moderator? Oh dear. I have him on my black list.
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Post by thebfg on Dec 5, 2016 16:23:59 GMT
I think I must have missed that bit. Not on. Which member? Be careful about this. MissMax has said a few things about others that tried to help. I have no idea whether her claim was justified or not. Your right an unjustified witch hunt would be out of order. Having said that if it's true. I can see why she has reacted the way she did. I notice it was not picked up on over there.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 5, 2016 16:31:22 GMT
Be careful about this. MissMax has said a few things about others that tried to help. I have no idea whether her claim was justified or not. Your right an unjustified witch hunt would be out of order. Having said that if it's true. I can see why she has reacted the way she did. I notice it was not picked up on over there. I suspect it is an over reaction but I don't know. I've made mistakes before. The first time I heard the word Necrophilia was in relation to J Saville - a conversation that still makes my mind spin.
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Post by naughtyfox on Dec 5, 2016 16:35:24 GMT
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