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Post by Deleted on Jul 29, 2016 10:13:35 GMT
Do you think one of you buggers could just ignore the other? The ignorer beats the ignoree in my book. Well the guy is on record in a previous post above saying that I haven't attacked him with name calling, so I can't Β and won't do much more I'm not quite sure why you wind eachother up so much but name calling is not the only form of personal attack. Trying to be clever and attempting to outsmart someone is another. Also, if someone is having a hard time (not saying Kris is BTW) they might not appreciate self made success being thown down their neck. Encouragement and kindness goes much further. The thing is that we all make our own minds up about people witout the need for justification. I think everyone here is pretty intelligent actually which makes it an interesting and funny place to be. Neither of you come over as bad blokes but there is definitely some kind of virtual personality clash going on. As long as you are both happy, does it really matter anyway? That's my amateur psychology bit done, I will now shut up.
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Post by haulierp on Jul 29, 2016 10:32:59 GMT
I understand all that you say,but I am not alone in attracting the wrath of Kris.Do we all have to dumb down when we are attacked in order to assuage someones bile and ignorance,who is going to accept that ? I humbly ask again,Kris says I haven't levelled any personal abuse at him but have been apparently derogatory,I don't know where these derogatory posts occur since our truce and I therefore invite Kris to produce them,he can't and won't because we both know that one mans derogatory comment is anthers harmless attempt at humour or irreverence.Without the Personal Name Calling the point is lost.
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Post by kris on Jul 29, 2016 10:44:39 GMT
Congratulations on getting married, you didn't have your honeymoon on the boat then? Goodluck with the Thames hope you get it done this next time. Ha ha. No we had a train based holiday to North Italy. It did include a couple of boat trips on Lake Garda and one at Venice. We even did the romantic Gondola thing, but it was the only time on the honeymoon that it chucked it down with rain! An omen or good luck....who knows? I wouldn't read too much into the rain, it was just water falling. But good luck in your married life.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 29, 2016 10:45:30 GMT
...but I am not alone in attracting the wrath of Kris. I think you are actually, but I'm not sure why.
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Post by kris on Jul 29, 2016 10:51:29 GMT
...but I am not alone in attracting the wrath of Kris. I think you are actually, but I'm not sure why. I've met him in the real world, enough said.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 29, 2016 11:05:13 GMT
I think you are actually, but I'm not sure why. I've met him in the real world, enough said. Would it be daft to suggest you PM wachother and try to sort it out so it doesn't spill out here publically (athough I suppose it might be entertaining for some I guess).
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Post by kris on Jul 29, 2016 11:28:59 GMT
I wouldn't have thought that's a good idea, I don't like him that's not going to change. He thinks he's clever, he calls his personal attacks "humour" and then gets upset when I prefere the direct approach of calling a spade a spade. Now he's acting all hard done by, Paul don't give it if you can't take it. He keeps trying to widen it out and include other people. It's just better we don't communicate, but that also includes his "humorous" comments about myself.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 29, 2016 11:38:38 GMT
I wouldn't have thought that's a good idea, I don't like him that's not going to change. He thinks he's clever, he calls his personal attacks "humour" and then gets upset when I prefere the direct approach of calling a spade a spade. Now he's acting all hard done by, Paul don't give it if you can't take it. He keeps trying to widen it out and include other people. It's just better we don't communicate, but that also includes his "humorous" comments about myself. Ok, fair enough. It does help to get to the root of these problems sometimes. Usually both sides gain something from it. I also know from personal experience that drawing a line is sometimes the only way too.
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Post by haulierp on Jul 29, 2016 12:42:52 GMT
...but I am not alone in attracting the wrath of Kris. I think you are actually, but I'm not sure why. You perhaps want to read the Forum rather than being an apologist for him. Thats the thing with you,you post these thinly veiled digs posing as observation, how you could be on this Forum and come to the above conclusion is ridiculous. Everyone who doesn't concur with this deadbeats point of view incurs his wrath. I could name them if you like but why be complicit in your laziness ?
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Post by haulierp on Jul 29, 2016 12:51:11 GMT
I wouldn't have thought that's a good idea, I don't like him that's not going to change. He thinks he's clever, he calls his personal attacks "humour" and then gets upset when I prefere the direct approach of calling a spade a spade. Now he's acting all hard done by, Paul don't give it if you can't take it. He keeps trying to widen it out and include other people. It's just better we don't communicate, but that also includes his "humorous" comments about myself. Produce the derogatory posts like you were asked ,come on we are all waiting, in fact lets resume normal service, I prefer that.
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Post by JohnV on Jul 29, 2016 13:00:23 GMT
I think you are actually, but I'm not sure why. You perhaps want to read the Forum rather than being an apologist for him. Thats the thing with you,you post these thinly veiled digs posing as observation, how you could be on this Forum and come to the above conclusion is ridiculous. Everyone who doesn't concur with this deadbeats point of view incurs his wrath. I could name them if you like but why be complicit in your laziness ? That is incorrect. I have disagreed on several occasions with Kriss (I suggest you look back at some of the posts between us over if it were possible for him to have moved during his breakdown) Kriss is well aware that we don't see eye to eye on many matters but neither of us have called the other names or made snide comments. We agree with one another when there are grounds to do so and agree to disagree when we need to. If we meet up I would be delighted to have a drink with him and wrangle a few more points in the pub. I respect his right to see the world differently to me. So that statement is incorrect and in it's way inflammatory
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Post by haulierp on Jul 29, 2016 13:08:17 GMT
You perhaps want to read the Forum rather than being an apologist for him. Thats the thing with you,you post these thinly veiled digs posing as observation, how you could be on this Forum and come to the above conclusion is ridiculous. Everyone who doesn't concur with this deadbeats point of view incurs his wrath. I could name them if you like but why be complicit in your laziness ? That is incorrect. I have disagreed on several occasions with Kriss (I suggest you look back at some of the posts between us over if it were possible for him to have moved during his breakdown) Kriss is well aware that we don't see eye to eye on many matters but neither of us have called the other names or made snide comments. We agree with one another when there are grounds to do so and agree to disagree when we need to. If we meet up I would be delighted to have a drink with him and wrangle a few more points in the pub. I respect his right to see the world differently to me. So that statement is incorrect and in it's way inflammatory The guy has an issue with me of that there is no doubt,but so what normal service is now resumed between us. You are fully aware of the posters on here who have incurred his wrath it would be disingenuous to pretend otherwise but they can speak for themselves so lets see how we go.
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Post by kris on Jul 29, 2016 13:26:48 GMT
You perhaps want to read the Forum rather than being an apologist for him. Thats the thing with you,you post these thinly veiled digs posing as observation, how you could be on this Forum and come to the above conclusion is ridiculous. Everyone who doesn't concur with this deadbeats point of view incurs his wrath. I could name them if you like but why be complicit in your laziness ? That is incorrect. I have disagreed on several occasions with Kriss (I suggest you look back at some of the posts between us over if it were possible for him to have moved during his breakdown) Kriss is well aware that we don't see eye to eye on many matters but neither of us have called the other names or made snide comments. We agree with one another when there are grounds to do so and agree to disagree when we need to. If we meet up I would be delighted to have a drink with him and wrangle a few more points in the pub. I respect his right to see the world differently to me. So that statement is incorrect and in it's way inflammatory [i look forward to having a beer with you sometime John and a good chat, I imagine it would be fun.
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Post by kris on Jul 29, 2016 13:28:30 GMT
I wouldn't have thought that's a good idea, I don't like him that's not going to change. He thinks he's clever, he calls his personal attacks "humour" and then gets upset when I prefere the direct approach of calling a spade a spade. Now he's acting all hard done by, Paul don't give it if you can't take it. He keeps trying to widen it out and include other people. It's just better we don't communicate, but that also includes his "humorous" comments about myself. Produce the derogatory posts like you were asked ,come on we are all waiting, in fact lets resume normal service, I prefer that. Who are all the people waiting? You really are an egotist.
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Post by haulierp on Jul 29, 2016 13:31:12 GMT
Produce the derogatory posts like you were asked ,come on we are all waiting, in fact lets resume normal service, I prefer that. Who are all the people waiting? You really are an egotist. Where are the derogatory posts ? I have asked you to produce them four times now,where are they ?
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