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Post by Deleted on Mar 1, 2020 19:06:34 GMT
ETA, my massively hetrosexual (boarding on homophobic.. ) mate was knocked for six when Placebo burst onto the scene in 1997 with Nancy Boy, the lead singer is stunning he said, have you heard their music? It's awesome he said. Opinion changed a little when I pointed out the lead singer was called Brian... 🙈😁
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Post by metanoia on Mar 1, 2020 19:09:38 GMT
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Post by Deleted on Mar 1, 2020 19:12:57 GMT
I'm not quite strong in't arm thick in head but I know what you are getting at! Settings duly changed 🤗👍🍻 You're ahead of me there - wouldn't know how to set anything. Hope to reach your way this year so will stay as a "member" in the hope of PMing you. Meanwhile, keep the lovely dwarf and Northamptonshire safe xxx I be here - and more importantly on the Nene; as sure as night follows day! TBH I need a visa to leave the county let alone the country so feel free to PM me 👍 These days the dwarf seems more in charge than I ever have done - 6 going on 16🙈
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Post by JohnV on Mar 1, 2020 19:14:17 GMT
I'm not quite strong in't arm thick in head but I know what you are getting at! Settings duly changed 🤗👍🍻 You're ahead of me there - wouldn't know how to set anything. Hope to be up your way this year so will stay as a "member" in the hope of PMing you. Meanwhile, keep the lovely dwarf and Northamptonshire safe xxx Oi !!! don't you go doin' a disappearing act again or there will be trouble !!!
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Post by Deleted on Mar 1, 2020 19:14:28 GMT
Why do such good "friends" feel the need to hide? Neither of you show up on the members online list for reasons only you can know.... could it be because you enjoy making many of us feel quite sad, bad and threatened? I lost a real, proper boating friend this week ... ….that makes me feel sad and bad - but not menaced. Im sorry you lost a friend. I had a reason to hide but certainly not to make anybody feel threatened. I too have changed my privacy setting for now. Im also sad that you no longer "like me" presumably based on my postings or habits here but to be honest Ive had enough of people telling me to "be kind" The forum and others like it are an infinitesimal part of social media and I respect your feelings but I wont be told how to behave to suit others. It is impossible to please you and others and Ive given up trying. So like me or loathe me it really doesn't matter.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 1, 2020 19:19:18 GMT
For me it is a protective sort of thing in person where I could gauge the reaction to every sentence, I could explain but certainly not something that I'd be prepared to put online. People have different histories...... you're ONLINE... it's no secret x It is my secret when and if I'm online, I might be online and signed in for 20 hrs a day but might only check the forum 4 or 5 times a day - I can't be arsed to defend attacks around how long I spend online or logged in - simple decision in my view and if others don't like it take it up with someone who gives an eff about the issue.
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Post by metanoia on Mar 1, 2020 19:22:49 GMT
Nothing to do with "liking", Chagall.
Most of us here have had plenty of the shit stuff, and some..... loads of reasons to hide - and be out here on the water.
You do whatever feels right for you - a little respect for others is always a bonus, though x
As you say
"it really doesn't matter"
But it might be beneficial to all if you have a little empathy..?
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Post by metanoia on Mar 1, 2020 19:26:44 GMT
You're ahead of me there - wouldn't know how to set anything. Hope to be up your way this year so will stay as a "member" in the hope of PMing you. Meanwhile, keep the lovely dwarf and Northamptonshire safe xxx Oi !!! don't you go doin' a disappearing act again or there will be trouble !!! Thanks JV! xxx
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Post by Deleted on Mar 1, 2020 19:27:51 GMT
A truly great album cover for an avatar @chagall1984.
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Post by metanoia on Mar 1, 2020 19:27:57 GMT
You're ahead of me there - wouldn't know how to set anything. Hope to reach your way this year so will stay as a "member" in the hope of PMing you. Meanwhile, keep the lovely dwarf and Northamptonshire safe xxx I be here - and more importantly on the Nene; as sure as night follows day! TBH I need a visa to leave the county let alone the country so feel free to PM me 👍 These days the dwarf seems more in charge than I ever have done - 6 going on 16🙈 Good luck, gazza Hope to see you before she's out of short trousers!!!!!! Take care x
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Post by Deleted on Mar 1, 2020 19:30:18 GMT
Nothing to do with "liking", Chagall. Most of us here have had plenty of the shit stuff, and some..... You do whatever feels right for you - a little respect for others is always a bonus, though x As you say it really doesn't matter But it might be beneficial to all if you have a little empathy..? I gave you empathy, you didn't see it, I gave you respect but you didn't see that either. Perhaps you only see what you want to see? (that was meant respectfully too but the written word can be taken in so many different ways according to mood) I dont speak the same as others, I dont do twee and I dont do lovey dovey, and believe me Ive tried that! Works for a time but when the gloss gets forgotten to be applied then its utter confusion.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 1, 2020 19:37:56 GMT
It's only a daft forum ... we like it but it's not real life like Coronation Street Meanwhile your avatar got me thinking about Led Zeppelin. Rog
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Post by Deleted on Mar 1, 2020 19:45:04 GMT
Out of everyone Chagall has been the most empathetic person towards me (and I thank her for that). Some/many posters may say I didn't deserve the empathy and they are entitled to their opinions. Please don't associate any of my faults with Chagall - she is her own person.
I'll bow out of the conversation now I've said my bit, but hopefully most will welcome Chagall back home without confusing stuff with my faults.
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Post by JohnV on Mar 1, 2020 19:46:14 GMT
It's only a daft forum ... we like it but it's not real life like Coronation Street Meanwhile your avatar got me thinking about Led Zeppelin. Rog bloody hell ..... this forum is stuffed with aging head bangers where did he come from it should have been
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Post by Deleted on Mar 1, 2020 19:49:54 GMT
Just aging JohnV ... just aging Currently listening to Verdi's Rigoletto 'Caro nome' No heads were banged during the performance. Rog
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