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Post by Deleted on Mar 28, 2019 18:52:09 GMT
I don't have any expectations for my girls. They can do what they like. No more family money for them as I will have spent it all by being a man of leisure / lazy fucker / playing with boats.
I'm happy with however they turn out. With one exception. No boys. [
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Post by patty on Mar 29, 2019 6:33:42 GMT
Yes mine do that ..then because they forget they let the truth slip post whatever they lied about...... I laugh now .... I've a lousy memory, I should start telling her the truth really. Problem is, she wants her son to be like her husband; a jolly good fellow in the office pursuing his career, dressed in a suit, side parting like John Major. It just aint going to happen. I think all us mums want 'safe' for our sons but learn to accept they follow their own path.. The eldest has a brilliant career but occasionally does stuff to scare me..did those Desert runs..5 marathons over 5 days and other such jollies.. Middle son ..well..drugs, police, court, runners etc etc..nightmare years but now almost settled with partner and son near me. Youngest..Marines, Afghanistan then Diving job where ever including S. Korea and Falklands and of course Expedition 5 which has caused more scares and worry than the other 2 put together I always dreamed of maybe one son being a carpenter or engineer or u know summit solid, living near me and being there to help out when I needed help...instead I've stood virtually alone and sorted it all out. However no real regrets as they all seem to be getting there. I get promises that I know will never materialise so I just get on with it. I do believe what they tell me until proved otherwise as there has to be trust in any relationship but the 'fibs' don't bother me now as they used to as I see them for what they are.
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