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Post by peterboat on Feb 15, 2018 9:26:30 GMT
Last year I went to Richard and Simons wedding its was a great do and they are great guys, however by their own admission gay years are like dog years and most gay couples dont last as long as they have! Which then causes the problem of broken homes if they have fathered children, its pretty much the same as straight sex couples problems. So the question is still the same for me, like John I am not into fertility treatment and I would cancel the whole of the NHS budget for it,we have far to many children looking for homes without bringing any more into it! If a gay couple want a child easy adopt or one/both of them get a lady pregnant and end up with the child but please remember a child is for life not just Christmas! Also that child might have a hard time at school, because kids as we know, can be right vicious bullies when they see something different Do you have any evidence to support your assertion that gay relationships last significantly less time than straight ones? Jeff and I have been together for 26 years now, my younger cousin has been with his husband for about 20 years. I know so many straight couples whose marriages don’t last. My best (straight) mate has been married 3 times and is onto his 4th partner. In summary, I think your supposition is classic ignorant prejudice in action. Richard and Simon had many relationships before meeting each other, they have gay friends who we meet none are in a stable relationship! they are every time we meet them with a different partner. Chris of our moorings must have had 10 partners in the last 13 years, and Paul one of his partners who lives on another boat [part time] is the same so its not prejudice its a fact. I seem to have a lot of gay friends I clearly like the person and not their sexuality! Mark and Andy Quaysider are a lovely couple Jayne and I enjoyed a drunken BBQ with them, I couldnt care less which side they bat for its the person that matters every time
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Post by Mr Stabby on Feb 15, 2018 9:29:13 GMT
Did you hear about the two poofs who couldn't tell the difference between Vaseline and putty?
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Post by Telemachus on Feb 15, 2018 9:35:52 GMT
Did you hear about the two poofs who couldn't tell the difference between Vaseline and putty? No, but i feel sure I soon will have.
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Post by Mr Stabby on Feb 15, 2018 9:39:06 GMT
Did you hear about the two poofs who couldn't tell the difference between Vaseline and putty? No, but i feel sure I soon will have. All their windows fell out.
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Post by Telemachus on Feb 15, 2018 9:40:18 GMT
Do you have any evidence to support your assertion that gay relationships last significantly less time than straight ones? Jeff and I have been together for 26 years now, my younger cousin has been with his husband for about 20 years. I know so many straight couples whose marriages don’t last. My best (straight) mate has been married 3 times and is onto his 4th partner. In summary, I think your supposition is classic ignorant prejudice in action. Richard and Simon had many relationships before meeting each other, they have gay friends who we meet none are in a stable relationship! they are every time we meet them with a different partner. Chris of our moorings must have had 10 partners in the last 13 years, and Paul one of his partners who lives on another boat [part time] is the same so its not prejudice its a fact. I seem to have a lot of gay friends I clearly like the person and not their sexuality! Mark and Andy Quaysider are a lovely couple Jayne and I enjoyed a drunken BBQ with them, I couldnt care less which side they bat for its the person that matters every time But there are plenty of straight people exactly the same. And plenty of straight people who wish they were the same and cheat on their partners. I would say that straights are better at pretending to be in a long term relationship, whilst cheating and eventually breaking up the relationship a few years after spending 10s of thousands on a fancy wedding. But anyway, do any of these short-termists you mention want or have kids? Generally poofs only want kids when they are in a strong and stable relationship.
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Post by Telemachus on Feb 15, 2018 9:41:21 GMT
No, but i feel sure I soon will have. All their windows fell out. Not that good, you’ll have to try harder if you want a “like”.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 15, 2018 9:44:46 GMT
What about the joke about the Irish gay couple called Patrick and Gerald? I Can't remember their surnames to complete the joke.
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Post by Mr Stabby on Feb 15, 2018 9:46:11 GMT
All their windows fell out. Not that good, you’ll have to try harder if you want a “like”. You're just upset that there was no sodomy in the punchline.
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Post by Telemachus on Feb 15, 2018 9:46:57 GMT
What about the joke about the Irish gay couple called Patrick and Gerald? I Can't remember their surnames to complete the joke. Good grief, do I have to finish your jokes for you? Gerald Fitzpatrick and Patrick Fitzgerald.
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Post by kris on Feb 15, 2018 9:47:01 GMT
Don't listen to nasty Nick, at least it was a new to the forum joke Vince.
As for the topic. Poofs having kids, I think the worst aspect is that a lot of the kids are getting treated like fashion accessories. So what happens when the fashion changes. Maybe they can hand them back to the surrogate when they've had enough.
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Post by Telemachus on Feb 15, 2018 9:47:44 GMT
Not that good, you’ll have to try harder if you want a “like”. You're just upset that there was no sodomy in the punchline. No, I objected on the practical point that putty in a window goes solid.
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Post by Telemachus on Feb 15, 2018 9:48:37 GMT
Don't listen to nasty Nick, at least it was a new to the forum joke Vince. As for the topic. Poofs having kids, I think the worst aspect is that a lot of the kids are getting treated like fashion accessories. So what happens when the fashion changes. Maybe they can hand them back to the surrogate when they've had enough. No, just send them in for a makeover. Change of skin colour or whatever.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 15, 2018 9:50:17 GMT
What about the joke about the Irish gay couple called Patrick and Gerald? I Can't remember their surnames to complete the joke. Good grief, do I have to finish your jokes for you? Gerald Fitzpatrick and Patrick Fitzgerald. Just checking if your brain was working normally.
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Post by thebfg on Feb 15, 2018 9:58:23 GMT
When 'your' child is a teenager and turns out to be interested in girls (if a boy) or boys (if a girl), it may be embarrassing for them to bring their schoolmates homes with Daddy 1 and Daddy 2 cuddling in the kitchen. Kids are very cruel (just like adults!) and rumours and gossip spread like wildfire at school. This is such an outdated idea, although I can see it being a problem in the swamps of Finland. Poofs are cool and stylish, and with modern kids being so superficial and materialistic the kid picked up by the well dressed gym-bunny dad in the pink pound car will be king, whereas the kids picked up by the fat ugly straggly baggily-dressed styleless straight dad, or the frumpy saggy “I’ve have my kids so now i must look as ugly as possible to discourage him from wanting sex” mum will be the ones getting stick. Rumours and gossip only spread when the truth is being hidden. I think you may be forgetting kids can be cruel at times. They will pick on a kid for having the wrong trainers. Going back, I thing it's all relationships that have issues. We don't seem to be getting the married for 50 years anymore. Sam and I have been together for nearly 15 years and I've seen many couples of all types get married and divorced in less time.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 15, 2018 10:15:31 GMT
A very difficult issue. My neice has three young daughters, two of whom were born using IVF. I wear spectacles as I am genetically programmed to have poor eyesight. Sometimes nature needs a hand. Forgive me as a childless man 'spouting' on this matter, but in my view a child needs time and love. I am unconvincind that it matters who from. I know personally more hetrosexual couples who have split, divorced etc than same sex couples (only one). Couples fall out of love but it's a poor argument for not having children don't you think. There's a whole branch of law predicated on family break-ups. The odds against living 'happily ever after' are not good for any of us, but we have to believe it's for ever don't we? Rog Ah so when you want to give an opinion about children you must be forgiven, but when I do it I am a pariah! You were a 'pariah' (your description) due to your inability on that thread, to post without insulting everyone or without using the worst obscenities. I apologised for commenting on a thread relating to children, as I have sufficient humility to realise the many parents on here may be thinking I know nothing about the subject. In my case, on two counts I thought you said your were highly intelligent? Rog
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